Pros and Cons of being too polite

short pros and cons

Hello there,

todays short blog will be about the good and bad things of being too nice to people.

Lets cut it short.

Pros: If the person you are talking to understands that youre just being polite/nice and thus is polite as well and appreciates it.

  • others will be nice as well (depends on the person)
  • you might feel good about being nice to others
  • it might gives you a good feeling as a reward
  • you might be seen as a nice person from customers to seek help
  • being nice can help you grow your social skills with friends and family
  • being nice could be rewarded with respect from others as well
  • it might boost your confidence because your social skills get better and communication does too

Now for the cons:

  • you won’t be able to have an authentic relationship.
  • you’ll might never be as happy as you could be but this different for every person
  • you might give the OK for others to take advantage of you
  • you might subordinate yourself by overapologizing to others
  • you might be not taken seriously by some people or the most
  • you might burn out and or be resentful and think too much
  • you might have problems to get into a serious relationship

In the end its okay to be nice but dont overdo it, specially if you know how many people would react and take advantage of.

Heres a link to our book „Beliefs spiritually considered“ to help out. https://www.amazon.de/Beliefs-spiritually-considered-Katja-Kubiak/dp/B08BDVN6K5

Autor: Arslan_M.

- Spiritueller Bewusstseinscoach

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