Pros and Cons of being too polite

short pros and cons

Hello there,

todays short blog will be about the good and bad things of being too nice to people.

Lets cut it short.

Pros: If the person you are talking to understands that youre just being polite/nice and thus is polite as well and appreciates it.

  • others will be nice as well (depends on the person)
  • you might feel good about being nice to others
  • it might gives you a good feeling as a reward
  • you might be seen as a nice person from customers to seek help
  • being nice can help you grow your social skills with friends and family
  • being nice could be rewarded with respect from others as well
  • it might boost your confidence because your social skills get better and communication does too

Now for the cons:

  • you won’t be able to have an authentic relationship.
  • you’ll might never be as happy as you could be but this different for every person
  • you might give the OK for others to take advantage of you
  • you might subordinate yourself by overapologizing to others
  • you might be not taken seriously by some people or the most
  • you might burn out and or be resentful and think too much
  • you might have problems to get into a serious relationship

In the end its okay to be nice but dont overdo it, specially if you know how many people would react and take advantage of.

Heres a link to our book „Beliefs spiritually considered“ to help out. https://www.amazon.de/Beliefs-spiritually-considered-Katja-Kubiak/dp/B08BDVN6K5

Energetisches Chaos – Momentane Welt

Hallo Zusammen, jeder weiß wohl wenn ich das Wort „Krieg“ erwähne, worum es hier geht. Jedoch geht es nicht um den physischen Teil, sondern den spirituellen Aspekt. Ich erwähne vorab, dass diese Geschehnisse ebenso auch überall anders stattfinden, in welcher ein Krieg am laufen ist oder großes Leid. Nehmen wir das Kampffeld unter energetische Beobachtung, … Weiterlesen „Energetisches Chaos – Momentane Welt“

Traumwelten: „Exorzieren“ eines Hauses

Hallo Zusammen, Ich durfte wieder letzte Nacht einen Wiederholungstraum besuchen. Dabei fanden erst komplett zufällige Szenen statt, welche aber mit zu der Traumsequenz gehörten. Eines der Szenen war, dass mir zu warm wurde und ich in einer Art Abflussschleuse am Straßenrand badete. Von dieser Ansammlung von braunem Wasser trank auch noch ab und an eine … Weiterlesen „Traumwelten: „Exorzieren“ eines Hauses“

Gefangen im Traum – Sinn der Wiederholungsträume

Hallo Zusammen, Ich weiss wir hatten dieses Thema schon in einem früheren Blog, jedoch hat mir der gestrige Traum mehr Klarheit über gewisse Dinge gebracht. Ich erzähle euch erstmal vom Traum. Ich bin in einem älteren Gebäude in Senftenberg, meinem damaligen Wohnort in Deutschland aufgewacht. Ich stand dort bewusst in der Szene und wusste was … Weiterlesen „Gefangen im Traum – Sinn der Wiederholungsträume“

A Guide to learn Astral Traveling

We work really effektive and hard (sometimes) to give new input to the masses 😉

So here is our new book:

we are very happy to have the posibility to show and teach you everything about it.

Please, if you have more questions, contact us for more instructions and help 🙂

so, dont be afraid and start your journey into the deepest places of the universe now.


Was ist ein Visionboard und wozu dient es?

Ein Visionboard, ist die oft gepriesene grafische Aufbereitung unserer eigenen Vision, unseres Traumes, unserer Ziele.

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Man könnte faul sein und Fotos suchen und die aufkleben, oder an die Wand kleben, man kann aber auch kreativ sein und seine Ziele aufmalen, oder in Lettern aufkleben, lasst eurer Fantasie freien Lauf.

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Und wozu das ganze???

Um unser Unterbewusstsein! auf unsere Ziele / Visionen / gehoffte Erfolge einzustimmen.

Unser Unterbewusstsein entscheidet darüber wie viel Energie wir auf unser Ziel legen, wieviel Motivation wir letzten Endes besitzen und wie viel Arbeit wir investieren.

Was ist also besser, als uns unser Ziel immer mal wieder vor AUGEN zu halten?!

Selbst, wenn wir es nicht sehen, unser Gehirn weiss ganz genau, WAS wir da kreiiert haben und wird nun noch mehr Energie darauf legen, dass wir es erreichen.

Habt ihr schon mal ein Visionboard kreiiert?

Lasst es uns wissen.

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A demons playground

Hey everyone, I want to talk about things, which i learn from my constant repeating dreams, about many things in those worlds. One of those things is the behaviour of „demons“, ghosts or lets say negative entity’s. How do they behave and what kind of goal do they have? Well..ive understood that these beings like … Weiterlesen „A demons playground“

Random Frustrations

The distance between you and me is sometimes put aside or ignored… but sometimes it hits me out of nowhere.

Specially when i see couples.. How annoying.. These people got their loved ones around.

And we still wait..

Cant let you wait much longer.

I know everything will go right.

See ya soon my left side. Hold yourself a bit longer.

And know that i love you, even when we fight a bit.

Even the cards said „The reason for your fights and bad feelings, it the distance“

And they really showed it.. Even the cards know how we feel xD

Love you my heart piece ❤

And Thanks Everyone for reading our blogs! 😊

Feelings and our mind

Is it true that suppressing feelings is bad for your health? And what does it really to you?

Well the answer is… it depends on the individual how much „damage“ it does.

Everything we do is often depended on feelings.

So what does happen to person who suppresses feelings?

First nothing happens and everything is as usual.. but when is gets triggered through a certain thing like music or words or whatever, it nearly explodes ..

Making decisions without any feelings still, should be considered in court or special cases. When a judge would decide by feelings, many would be screwed but today we talk about the other side!

So how much it erupts, depends again on the person.

As well it depends on the feeling. When you suppress anger, it will build up and up until you „kill“ somebody or punch him/her/it so hard, that your fist together with the face of the aggrevator breaks.

To suppress feelings is easy and we all do it until it gets triggered and released.

The damage isnt physically but mentally and it can lead to depression and lower body functions because of the depression.

Your body doesnt give a damn, but when you cut the energy supply and movement, the body will start to react.

If screaming your lungs out helps you, Scream!

If hitting a punching bag helps you, Punch!

If crying helps you, cry and smile afterwards!

Shortly said: supressing feelings isnt good at all and it can lead to serious mental and phyiscal problems. Dealing with them and talking does way more to your health and when you cry, well fuck it!

Crying is a release too! So dont be ashamed, the strong will not show any feelings which is mostly mistaken by men as „cool“ or being tough.

Its bullshit.. a men who cant stand to his own feelings is the real weakling, this doesnt mean that not showing any feeling makes someone weak or strong.

Sometimes there isnt any feeling to show 😄

Dream tests #1 – Fear

I woke up very scared today and didnt understood why.

I was sweating really bad too but it wasnt actually so warm the night before.

I was flying few meters above my body and stood in the air, my room was definetly the same, nothing was replaced or moved.

I started unconsciously to deform my room to a different place while mixing it with some sort of time travel. Anybody who travels astral knows, that time travel is possible.

So the first littly change did nothing accept causing a bit greenish light to appear in the room. Suddenly was i was back in my body but i didnt woke up, instead i was checking the reaction to my body.

Ive had read a little text yesterday where Carlos Castaneda claimed, that we forget what we did in our dreams because of a fear mechanism which was caused automatically by our body… Maybe i was testing it unwillingly?

After doing the change a second time, ive felt little vibrations on my skin and a bit allertness came up, but it dropped immediately after i stopped.

It was a „test it and switch to body to see what the reaction will be“ – thing.

Now the third time, i changed the whole room and everything was shaking, it was a bit loud and short before changing everything including the bed where my body slept, i switched back to it and my pillow dropped down from my head and i dont know how when my head was on it.

I was shaking like hell and my sweat was intense while only my lower body was covered.

I absolutely knew that the change of the room happend astral, but when i switched back, my physical body was feeling the difference and we all know the instincts of survival… I have never felt a greater fear after i woke up. I thought my body would ripp to thousand pieces too..

While i felt nothing astral, no fear of death or whatever, my body was feeling all of it. But i didnt forgot what happend… So does fear really play a role ?

But i did realise that my memory was fading away from the details.

Our body’s or lets say brain, posess the ability to bring everything down to our unconscioussness.

Here’s my theory:

If we often act unconsciously in our dreams, and we act consciously when we are awake, (while we forget what we did in these worlds) wouldnt that mean the existence of a wall between these both ?

I mean why cant we remember in our dreams, what we actually did in the physical world? Why is our consciousness drifting away?

These question get answered in our new book:

Impress Yourself

A Little Motivation For You

How often does it happen that we feel impressed by other people’s stuff ? Often it happens that we start to feel bad about ourselves because we look at us and then at them.

How would it be if we would feel impressed about ourselves for accomplishing something?

I mean do YOU really need someone to tell you what you made was great? I dont deny that it is a fact of appreciation and compliment which would feel good but…

Do you really need that from someone else?

The very first person who should give himself an ovation is the one who made the work. The one who knows what he did there and how great it is.

If you can say to yourself „I made it and im impressed about myself“ – You will feel impressed and you will do more because the feeling you get will drive you forward.

The best feeling you will have is when everybody is against you and you still moved on and succeeded and i dont talk about money but about everything.

Impress Yourself because your own appreciation will have the biggest impact!

The appreciation from others will be the cherry on top of your cake = a nice topping but not a neccessarity!

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