Having a partner who lives hundred and thousands of miles away for a long time is very hard.
Specially when you cant see each other because some state’s and governments wont allow it..
Thats a pretty stupid and fucked up planet if you ask me… hindering two people to find their luck, while they can be anywhere, anytime around the globe with their privat jets..
It often happens that out of nowhere, we start to have a conflict with our long distance partner about many stupid and useless things.
The reason for this is the distance and frustration. Not knowing WHEN youre going to see him/her.
The more interesting thing is, every conflict dissapears when you start to video chat with your partner. It feels if a conflict never appeared at all.
So do more video chats people! I guarantee you, it will feel better and stress will be solved instantly!
The most problem is that you cant help them at any way if they should have problems or whatever.
Questions appear like „what if he/she get into a car accident and we never hear anymore from each other?“ Or what if…. and so on..
Pretty useless questions of course, because you couldnt change anything at all … only wait and hope.
And one more thing, the black question should never even be in your mind „does my partner fake it or step sides me with another one?“
This question is only to be asked if you really have a strange feeling about it.
If your partner really loves you and you both REALLY FEEL connected to each other – a way will be always open! It always is!
Have a good day friends!
Katjas Bauchladen 